The first phone in a child's hands is a big moment for the whole family, and most parents feel the same mix of pride and worry. Family Link is a free app from Google that lets you set a few sensible boundaries without reading every message your child sends. It does not make a phone "safe" on its own, but it gives you a structure to start from.
Keep both phones nearby, make sure they are connected to the internet, and have your own Google account password ready. The age at which a child can have a normal Google account differs from country to country, so Family Link guides you through the right option for your child's age.
Download the app called Google Family Link (not the one named "for children") from the official store listing. Open it and follow the prompts to create a family group with you as the parent.
Tap the option to add a child and enter their name, date of birth and a username. You will be asked to agree to some consent notes on behalf of your child. Read them. It is a good moment to explain to your child what the account is for.
On the child's phone, add the new account in Settings and then enter your parent password when asked. The phone is now linked and appears on your Family Link dashboard.
Children who feel that rules are fair are far more likely to talk to you when something goes wrong. Tell them what you can see and why. Agree on what they should do if they receive a message from a stranger, if someone asks for photos, or if they see something that upsets them. Our guide to spotting fake apps is a useful starting point for a family discussion.
As children grow, loosen the limits. A rule that fits a ten-year-old will feel unfair to a fourteen-year-old, and a rule that is ignored is worse than no rule.
Can my child remove Family Link? A supervised child cannot remove it without your permission, and you get a notice if the link is broken.
Does it work on iPhones? You can manage a child's Android device from an iPhone, but the child's device must be an Android phone or tablet.
Will it cost anything? The app is free.
A family agreement works better than secret controls. Agree on a bedtime, on which apps are fine, and on what the child should do if something online makes them uncomfortable. Write it down, and review it when the child gets older.
Check that the child's age on the account is correct, because it affects which controls apply. Keep the parent's Google account secure with 2-Step Verification, since someone who takes it over could change the child's settings. Also remember that Family Link does not replace talking about scams, strangers and sharing photos.









